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Recommended Reading

Most of us are not prepared to plan and carry out a funeral ceremony for the death of someone we love. And so much of the information available on this critically important subject fails to focus on what is most important: having a personalized, meaningful funeral that helps families and friends begin mourning after the death of someone they love.

In addition to the information provided within this website, a list of recommended reading is provided below to help you understand your choices and allow you to plan the most meaningful funeral for your loved one.

Dr. Alan Wolfelt

  • Wolfelt, Alan, Creating Meaningful Funeral Ceremonies: A Guide for Caregivers, Fort Collins, Colorado: Companion Press, 2011
  • Wolfelt, Alan,Creating Meaningful Funeral Ceremonies:  A Guide for Families, Fort Collins, Colorado: Companion Press, 2011
  • Wolfelt, Alan, The Journey through Grief:  Reflections on Healing, Fort Collins, Colorado: Companion Press, 1996
  • Wolfelt, Alan, Understanding Your Grief: Ten Essential Touchstones for Finding Hope and Healing Your Heart, Fort Collins, Colorado: Companion Press, 2003

Other Authors

  • Fulghum, Robert, From Beginning to End: The Rituals of Our Lives, New York: Villard Books, 1995
  • Long, Thomas G., Accompany Them With Singing: The Christian Funeral, Louisville, Kentucky: Westminster John Knox Press, 2009
  • Metrick, S.B., Crossing the Bridge: Creating Ceremonies for Grieving and Healing from Life’s Losses, Berkeley: Celestial Arts, 1994
  • Noel, Brook and Pamela Blair, PhD., I Wasn’t Ready to Say Goodbye: Surviving, Coping and Healing After the Sudden Death of a Loved One, Milwaukee: Champion Press, 2008
  • York, Sarah, Remembering Well: Rituals for Celebrating Life and Mourning Death, San Francisco: Jossey Bass, 2000